I have been one of the few very lucky people in this world to read 
Loved
 in it's very early stages and I couldn't be more excited for it's 
publication.  This book, written over many years by my close friend 
Kimberly Novosel,
 was so incredibly truthful.  I found I couldn't keep my greedy little 
hands off of it.  It was truly one of those "I can't put it down and 
want to read all the time and when I'm not reading it I'm thinking about
 it" phenomena that I relish.  I found that I related so much to the 
main character.  I 
too grew up in a small town, I 
too had big dreams, I 
too let myself fall in and out of love with men who not only didn't get me, but 
certainly
 didn't deserve me, or treat me by any means the way a good woman should
 be treated.  Men that consistently confused me, let me down, and I kept
 going back for more.  I've also had those beautiful men in my past that
 left a permanent stamp on my heart.  That will be forever missed, 
created an everlasting void, and will never replicated identically in 
another.  Dearest 
Loved, please give me another page to read, 
please tell me how the story ends, but yet please don't let it be over. 
 After all, it felt like my story, and I was hungry to know how I would 
turn out.
Admittedly, I found myself 
envious of her in many ways.  She was more adventurous than I, and it 
seemed more brave too.  I wanted to be like her and regretted ways in 
which I hadn't been like her in some of the choices I had made.  I was 
also was grateful for some of our differences.  The results of many of 
her choices didn't always turn out as she originally hoped for with 
sweet naivety, and instead, proved to be very disappointing.  It was in 
these instances I felt I had dodged a bullet that she wasn't as 
fortunate to avoid.  This book has appeal for women of all ages because 
those women, at one point in time, either were this character or will 
someday be this character.
Loved is a must read.  Any 
young girl out there can learn from the main character's struggles, take
 them to heart, and hopefully be better for it.  By feeling an easy 
compassion for the lovable main character, I hope women of all ages can 
learn to love themselves by seeing themselves in her.  You can't help 
but root for her success, her ambition, and her journey.  You want her 
to win because you want to win yourself.